Okay, finally, I think I can say it. Two years ago I found out that I no longer have lupus or rhuematoid arthritis. After taking pretty serious drugs for about 15 years for both of those illnesses, I don't have them. When Mojo was sick and my mom was in the process of transitioning I went to the doctor. I was given this news but too much was happening at the same time so I never processed it aside from no longer taking those horrible meds. I took a chemo med for years. It was gross. It turns out I do have fibromyalgia now (which to be honest for a long time I didn't believe was a thing-doctors fault). So, yeah, I'm healed?